My Internet Presence

Yaay, it always feels good to write....and i still wonder why i am not writting as much as i should. I should really consider making money from writting oh...Anyways, guess what? I found a long lost friend. Or rather, she found me. Shout out to Moni Sonde-Olatunji! Grin*
So i am neither on facebook, Twitter or instagram....i used to be  though but that was in the very beginning until i realized it wasnt of any precise benefit to me. I am a private person and i like my space... But for this attribute,I should have considered full fledged lifestyle blogging like Sisiyemmie☺
 Anyways, Moni checked me up on the internet and found my blog but without any contact details. So i decided to use this medium to add at least my email address for anyone else in search of me!☺😃So folks pending my mega bloom...I think it suffices to say that:
 I am Omowunmi Aderoba-Adeniyi. I like to write it as Omoaderoba Ayaadeniyi( meaning d child of Aderoba and the wife of Adeniyi)
I attended Fountain School, FGGC Oyo and University of Lagos and i can be reached via: thesire205@gmail.com.😀
Thank you Moni for making me know that i do have an internet presence that needed an upgrade....fingers crossed till my mega bloom....grin*
Blessings!

The Doctrine of Tithing & others.

It is no gainsaying that many Christian doctrines are being criticised daily by Christians and non-Christians alike. Infact, almost every teaching in the Bible has been criticised or misinterpreted even from the time of  our Lord Jesus. Little wonder why people castigate pastors for preaching about some of these doctrines. Buh hey! the gospel must be preached no matter whoose ox is gored. If you cannot preach it, let another who believes in it, do so. Our Job is to be like the Berean Christians and go back home to search the scriptures.(Acts 17:11)
There is indeed a great divide about many issues in Christiandom, e.g Church adminstration,Speaking in tounges, Prophecy, Dressing, Tithes and offerings, Dates and Time, e.t.c but I have learned in my walk not to argue these things..(Titus3:9)
One of my favourite lecturers in school usually says and I quote "Religion is a dogma, u either take it or leave it!"
Are you confused about any of these doctrines? Then, PRAY, ask the Holy Spirit to teach you the right thing to do. Ask him to help you understand and give you an encounter. 2. Read scriptures about the said doctrine. 3. Test and see...(Malachi 3:10).
 I remember my disgust as a young Christian when I hear a group speaking in tounges, I felt it wasn't just right and I even had scriptures in support of my reservations but now....I know better...I have tasted and know the power, the refreshment and the answers that come from praying in the spirit..
As for tithing, I won't preach about it too, just try it and see... I personally won't guarantee you immediate returns if you are hoping to hit a jackpot, but I can guarantee you a sense of fufilment, gratitude and joy...Well, that's what I feel when I pay my Tithe, Yeah, I feel so grateful to God not just for the money I have but for the ability to give a fraction of it in Honour and appreciation of the only true God, the giver of all good and perfect gifts and of course because I have given, I am confident of receiving.(Luke6:38)
Today, I am a stay at home mum, yet I have EVERYTHING I NEED. Perhaps, my days of 'working' and constantly tithing speaks for me....Oh taste and See folks!
Shalom!

On being a Full Time Mummy

God be Praised, I am a Mummy, a Full time Mummy, a Stay at Home Mum(SAHM)! I am so much of a Mummy that I try to remind myself always that I am first a wife to the most awesome husband in the Whole Wide World*grin*. So what do I do apart from changing diapers, feeding,playing with my baby and household chores???? I am always on the Internet! Don't know what I will do without my phone really!  Google has been my surest companion! If I see a dot on my baby, I ask Google to confirm what it is! As Internet savy as I can be I still don't find all my baby questions answered especially naija baby questions! Perhaps I should start a typical naija baby blog because even Mamalette has plenty oyinbo things....
All that aside, I must say it's not so easy being a 24/7 mum,  I do crave for breaks very much but my darling daughter wants her Mummy 24/7. Sometimes, I am frustrated, sometimes I am sick and sometimes I just want to be alone or do something else without my baby nearby, buh hey I am just stuck! I always console myself with #thistooshallsoonpass#.
Did I hear u say get a creche or nanny, my dear, if I do I would defeat the financial purpose of my being a SAHM.(There are varying purposes and reasons for being a SAHM)Honestly, I absolutely do not regret being a SAHM, Indeed, no one told me the road would be easy but I do know for sure that it's a worthy route. Are u wondering if you should join me on this route? There are a few things to consider, I would mention the top three considerations.1. What is God saying to you? do U think He's got your back? If He got your back, trust me you would feel so at peace with your decison irrespective of your circumstance or what the world thinks! .2. Your Husband..please forget it if you do not have an awesome husband who's with u on this route. 3. Your Personality/character/lifestyle...Today is not a day for emphasis or explanations but please and please, if u are not ready to make lifestyle adjustments, be submisve and conservative, just forget it.  If Finance is not a consideration for choosing to be a SAHM, we might be operating on a different pedestral buh for me, my husband and I considered it cheaper to so do. Let me also add that the decision to being a full time mommy shouldn't be borne out of laziness because it's a lot of work especially without a nanny or daycare! Indeed, it is real work!
At the moment my world revolves round my baby and I am doing my best to enjoying it while it last. Soon she wouldn't want mommy around her all the time and I would bask myself in the memories of today... Cheers to all Mummies!

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Mummy Tiwa: The Transition

In my Culture, calling a person by his/her first name can be very dicey. People here find it tad disrespectful especially where the person to be called is older in age or even status. It is our perception that calling a person by a first name shows some kind of over-familiarity. To play it safe therefore, people who try to show some respect would rather just say,   Brother, Sister, Aunty, Uncle, Mummy, Daddy or add it as a prefix to your name e.g. Aunty Wunmi which some still find offensive depending on your age! See how dicey it can be! Especially when you are not sure you are older or younger than the person you want to address!

Anyways, let’s talk about me! For Thirty-two years of my life, I have been addressed as Sister Seun or Aunty Wunmi by even four- year olds and I actually never considered it an issue. But my new name is really bursting my head! It Sounds like Wow, It sounds so amazing, so exciting, so elating, so surreal, so gooood!  I still can’t get over the transition!*Grinning!

It all changed in one day! The 18^th day of May 2015, when I birth the most beautiful baby girl on planet earth*smiles! And on the 25^th of May, she was christened ‘TIWAtope Michelle Adeniyi’! Thereafter, my named changed! All who felt I didn’t qualify to be called Aunty or Sister { I look  younger than my age} now feel free to qualify me with my daughter’s name, those who knew my age and felt it was just wrong to address me on a first name basis but initially had no choice have also made a switch!

It’s been five full months of Motherhood and I am grateful for this new season of my life. I have had to make many unsavoury or unpopular decisions in favour of my daughter, for instance, the decision to quit my job didn’t go down well with many but hey, the truth is : I’m definitely a proud mama who feels extremely privileged to be a full time mom with a super duper supportive husband and, of course, I am soo enjoying the privilege or right to be called: Mummy Tiwa! Heheehe!

Wake me up when September ends!

Yippee! So good to know my online diary still exists. I have been off for so long a time and it feels so good to re-read my posts...smiles, smiles,smiles. So why am I back here? I guess its a season of looking back...Its another Sweet September! Blessed be that day in September when I set my eyes on my friend, my lover and husband! Blessed be that awesome day and the days that followed . Here I am, with a Beautiful daughter and a beautiful home in just three Septembers! I just can't get over it all, its amazing,awesome, and exciting and I am so full of Gratitude to the only true God who collapses time! I celebrate the precious man he blessed me with and I celebrate each day of this special month. It's our own season of Valentine in this month and I am enjoying every  bit of this. I am indeed living my dreams and seriously, don't mind my title let nobody wake me up! 

Cheers to Marital bliss.

And yes, FYI diary, I am still Omoaderoba but added to that is Ayaadeniyi. 

Yeah ! It's now: Omoaderoba Ayaadeniyi! Roger that! wink*

2014…..Operation Pareto!

In my Church, the year 2013 was tagged the year of Pleasing God! And as the year comes to an end, I can’t but count my many blessings! God has indeed been faithful to me and I give myself a little pat on the back for endeavoring to please Him. Was I perfect? No! But, I’m sure closer to perfection than the preceding year. 

In my family, God blessed us with Unions, Births, graduations, Jobs, Provision, protection and much more and I truly can’t thank the Most High God enough! Kabiyesi, Oluorun, I write to give you Twale!!!

Amidst all my many blessings, God gave me a lovely man... And now! ‘FINALLY’! (as everyone would add), I’m poised to getting married in a few months! God has indeed vindicated me by His Mercy and I’m forever grateful!

2013 has indeed been a good year and I’m positive 2014 would be better. I do not have resolutions perse but I really do want to apply the Pareto principle in 2014. I think I have done many things in 2013 and all I have done haphazardly! Thus, in 2014, I hope to focus my time, energy and resources on the major things that give me the most satisfaction/fulfillment. What I mean is that I hope to focus on my priorities in 2014.

In case you don’t know, the Pareto principle is also known as the 80/20 rule and is the idea that 20 percent of causes generate 80 percent of results. In applying this principle to my life therefore, I believe that if I can identify and focus on 20% of my core interest, I’ll achieve 80% (more) of the satisfaction that doing a little of everything would have generated.

Need I tell you my core interest, Nah! I just hope to focus on them….Since blogging isn’t one of them, I’m not sure I would blog at all in 2014…..So just in case anyone on the world wide web is/has been following my blog, my sincere apologies. I just hope I meet you sometime…

To 2013, I say thank you for being a good year, to 2014…I’ll say welcome, be better and be a great commencement to great and mighty things in my life….. I see a new beginning, a beautiful one at that!

Farewell 2013, Welcome 2014!

Blessings!

Omoaderoba!